Ecstasy, e, or XTC, is a drug that combines some
of the effects of
hallucinogens and LSD with
other
stimulants as amphetamines. The result is
a total distortion of the user’s mental outlook!
The user has great energy to go without sleep
or food.
A Large Family
The chemical name for Ecstasy is methylene-dioxymetyhamphetamine.
MDMA is just one of 179 members of a family of
drugs known as MDA’s, which are derived from the
oils of nutmeg, sassafras, saffron, and crocus.
Scientists are able to restructure the molecules
of MDA elements to create a dramatic array of
drugs. Depending on how these molecules are
arranged, the effects of the drug create
unusual user confidence and a general energy boost
to the EGO! This prompts them
to feel that they can do anything, including fly!
The Effects
The initial effects of Ecstasy begin about
twenty minutes to an hour after the user
swallows a pill. These effects are like those of
amphetamines: the user feels more energetic and
less inclined to hunger or fatigue. At the same
time, the drug raises the blood pressure, heart
rate, and body temperature. Ecstasy users
sometimes describe sensations associated with
nervousness, such as butterflies in the stomach
and tingling.
These reactions soon fade and the user begins to
feel happy and confident. This comfortable
feeling can border on
euphoria as well as a
sense of serenity and closeness to people around
them. The effects peak at about two hours and
slowly wind down for another two to four hours.
Although Ecstasy is sometimes described as a
mild hallucinogen, it is very rare for a user to
hallucinate. Sometimes, however, users tend to
exhibit behavior, such as shaking the head over
and over. The setting in which Ecstasy is
usually taken, a loud dance floor, can encourage
such impulses.
The Allure of Ecstasy
In some circles, Ecstasy is called
the love
drug. This nickname reflects one of the main
attractions of Ecstasy, the way it seems linked
to feeling good and a sense of shared purpose.
Many Ecstasy users refer to being loved-up when
describing the effects of the drug.
An important clue about the popularity of
Ecstasy is that it is a drug that people prefer
to take together. The word inclusiveness is
sometimes used to describe Ecstasy, referring to
the feeling that everyone in a large group is
somehow part of a team. The sense of well-being
produced by the drug is often strengthened by
the sight of dozens of other young people
sharing the same experience.
It is this feeling of togetherness and shared
sensations that makes dance clubs such a popular
venue for taking Ecstasy. Whereas a similar
number of people drinking alcohol could turn
aggressive or violent, an Ecstasy crowd is more
likely to bask in a collective sense of
affection. For this reason, women tend to feel
less threatened in an Ecstasy setting.
The Dangers
As with some other drugs, the user’s experience
with Ecstasy depends on his or her frame of mind
before taking the drug. An unsettled mood or a
sense of anxiety about the surroundings can lead
to a bad trip, an experience in which the user
feels panicky and out of control. In addition,
people who use Ecstasy only during weekends
report feeling down or very depressed in the
middle of the week.
The other negative effects of Ecstasy include
medical complications. There is mounting
evidence that regular use of the drug can cause
liver damage. And if a dose of Ecstasy makes the
user’s blood pressure skyrocket, the heart can
be strained to the point of failure. Most
importantly, dehydration associated with Ecstasy
can lead to heatstroke, respiratory collapse, and
kidney failure.
The word addictive triggers concern in many
people, especially parents who think their
children might be involved with Ecstasy. It
represents the ultimate danger of drug abuse, of
being drawn into a spiral of increased use,
craving, desperation, criminal activity, and
possible overdose.
Clearer Definitions
Doctors and drug counselors, however, prefer to
use the term dependence when discussing the
regular use of a drug. A number of different
factors can contribute to either a physical or
psychological dependence. Physical dependence is
usually linked to the idea of tolerance, meaning
that the body needs to have increasing amounts
of a drug for it to have the same effect. The
body begins to expect this increased amount and
goes through withdrawal if supplies stop.
Alcohol and Heroin are good examples of drugs
that promote physical dependence. Psychological
dependence, as the name suggests, has to do with
the user’s perceived need for the drug to cope
with stress or difficult situations. Alcohol
also produces a psychological dependence, as do
cocaine and amphetamines.
Ecstasy Withdrawal
Dependence on Ecstasy does not jive with these
textbook examples. It does, however, lead to a
certain amount of tolerance. Ecstasy is very
much addictive and will cause deep depression
and high anxiety!
Some of these psychological reactions relate to
what doctors call the rebound effect of drugs,
meaning that they eventually lead to sensations
that are exactly opposite to those they first
provided. Heroin, which first time users
experience as a stress-free comfort blanket,
eventually leads to a panic and
near-desperation. Amphetamines, which are noted
for supplying energy, can end up draining a user
of all energy reserves. Ecstasy, too, eventually
produces anxiety, fatigue, and depression in the
person who at first found care-free excitement
and energy.
The trance-like state that Ecstasy induces, with
its heightened sense of color and sound, causes
some people to take the drug regularly.
Ecstasy’s History
Although it appears very much in the headlines
these days, Ecstasy has had a checkered history
in the nine decades of its existence. It
surfaces as a publicized drug, and then drifts
back into relative obscurity. Its up-and-down
history is partly due to the very mixture of
effects that makes it so popular among partiers.
It increases sensations of color and sound but
cannot be described as a true hallucinogen, and
it provides energy without the sense of edginess
associated with amphetamines.
German Research
German pharmacologists at the beginning of the
twentieth century were involved in intense
research to produce new drugs for the public.
Many of today’s drugs of abuse were developed
around that time, in the flurry of medical
research. Cocaine, morphine, and heroin were
seen as so-called medical breakthrough drugs
when these chemists developed them, towards the
end of the nineteenth century. However, by the
early 1900s their true effects were emerging.
LSD, which was developed in neighboring
Switzerland during the 1930s and 1940s, was also
produced as a therapeutic drug. Such research
was often very hit-or-miss. A basic drug would
be isolated from a natural source, such as a
plant, and then it would undergo a number of
alterations as scientists tested for positive
effects. Along the way, some drugs were produced
that were not intended to be used on their own,
but were useful stepping stones in the
production of other pharmaceuticals.
MDMA, which we now know as Ecstasy, was one such
stepping stone. It was first synthesized by
chemists working for the Merck pharmaceutical
company in Darmstadt, Germany in 1912 and
patented in 1914. Despite widespread stories
today that the drug was developed as an appetite
suppressant, MDMA was simply a useful tool for
producing other drugs. The upheavals of World
War I caused MDMA to be largely forgotten as
chemists turned their attention to wartime
efforts.
Fresh Attempts
MDMA remained virtually unknown until 1939, when
researchers began a series of tests to see if it
would work as an appetite suppressant or as a
synthetic version of adrenaline, the hormone
that the body produces to deal with stress.
Wartime activity during World War II put an end
to these tests, and it was only after the war
that reports about the drug began to appear in
Polish scientific papers.
The post-war period ushered in the tense
Cold-War era, and the intelligence departments
of many countries began experimenting with drugs
to see if they could be used as weapons. One of
the drugs that seemed promising in this area was
LSD, and military scientists tried similar
experiments with MDMA. Unlike LSD, which began
to filter onto the streets because of its
obvious power, MDMA once more faded into the
background because it was less effective in
research. The military also abandoned research
on MDA, the more powerful parent drug of MDMA.
The Love Drug
During the 1960s, a chemist named Alexander
Shulgin began
synthesizing large quantities of
hallucinogens and spreading the word about MDA
and MDMA. Dubbed the love drug by California
drug takers, MDA was soon made illegal because
its effects resembled those of LSD. In 1972,
MDMA, or Ecstasy, arrived on the scene as a
legal alternative.
California, during the early 1970s, provided
fertile territory for the introduction of a
legal drug that promised to make people feel
happy, energetic, and friendly toward each
other. Marriage counselors and therapists
recommended Ecstasy to the public. It seemed as
though the drug provided a way of making people
feel better about themselves, while drawing
others into the sense of friendship and
well-being.
“What I found was a lot of people waiting for me
to come down from the clouds and begin sharing
in the good and bad of being a real person
again. What seemed like a gift was just another
shortcut that eventually led to nowhere of
importance.” – ANONYMOUS former user of Ecstasy.
The Final Dance
Even during the 1970s, when Ecstasy was building
a reputation for producing happiness and
contentment, it was still dispensed mainly by
doctors and psychiatrists. The drug was banned
in Britain in 1977, but remained legal in the
United States until 1985. The legality of
Ecstasy concerned some people who had been
involved with LSD for twenty years. Some
researchers continued to believe that LSD could
have been a useful, legal psychological tool, if
only its use had not become so widespread during
the 1960s. They believed that Ecstasy would
suffer the same fate if it became a popular
street drug.
The Beat Goes On
In the United States, many legal manufacturers
of the drug clung to the notion that they were
benefiting science and society in general. They
issued instructions on how to take the drug and
what effects to look for. By the mid 1980s,
however, their voices were lost in the loud
public outcry against the drug that seemed to be
taking young people by storm. Much of the
reaction was not just to the drug, but to the
throbbing, rhythmic beat of the dance music.
Young people had realized that Ecstasy improved
their ability to appreciate sounds, especially
rhythmic sounds. Recording companies moved to
cash in on this revelation by producing dance
music that would energize a large group of
people high on Ecstasy. In 1985, the real
breakthrough came when House music was developed
in a Chicago Club called the Warehouse (which
gave the music its name). House music, and its
vital Ecstasy element, took the world by storm.
However, that same year the United States
government made Ecstasy illegal.
“The party’s over. Ecstasy hurts the brain. It
is no longer a hypothesis. The drug is toxic. It
is no longer appropriate to consider it a
recreational drug.”
Alex Stalcup, a physician who runs a drug
treatment center in Concord, California.
Who Takes Ecstasy?
Many illegal drugs are popular within a certain
social group, or with those taking part in a
certain activity. For many people, the path to
using Ecstasy lies through the world of
all-night dancing at Raves. Ecstasy, like
amphetamines, lets people manage with less sleep
(at least for the short term) and allows them to
carry on for hours.
All Night Long
The link between
stimulant drug use and
all-night dancing is not exactly new. Even
before
World War II, people in clubs around the
world would take cocaine to stay up dancing
until dawn. The rave scene achieves the same
result. However, unlike the cocaine experience,
which was pursued only by a relatively few
people, Ecstasy use seems to have reached a
greater population.
Ecstasy has been the power behind the new dance
culture because it promotes empathy among users.
This good-time feeling contrasts strongly with
the aggression that had long been associated
with bars, discos, and alcohol.
Brief Heyday, Long-Term Damage?
Use of Ecstasy escalates among people in their
mid-teens, many of whom have achieved just
enough independence to stay out late. It usually
ends when people reach their twenties, or even
sooner. Few people in their twenties can afford
to lose a night’s sleep without suffering
negative effects in their studies or work. For
most people, their last E-tablet is also their
last illegal drug. However, by that time, damage
may have already been done to the brain, body
and the mind. According to the National
Institute on Drug Abuse, a study showed that
monkeys exposed to MDMA for just days
experienced brain damage that was evident 6 to 7
years later!
Using Ecstasy
Use of Ecstasy has become much more widespread
during the last decade. Its price has dropped,
which is part of the reason for this spread.
Ecstasy is no longer reserved for special
occasions. Ecstasy use is creeping into more
everyday settings and situations. In fact, one
British commentator suggested that Ecstasy is
becoming a “Tuesday night playing darts at the
pub” type of drug. In other words, Ecstasy is
becoming an accompaniment to all sorts of
activities. It is becoming harder to consider
any single user as a typical Ecstasy user.
The Ecstasy Scene
However, the overall majority of Ecstasy users
share some characteristics. People might be
attracted to Ecstasy for all sorts of reasons,
ranging from previous experience with
hallucinogens and stimulants to simple
curiosity. People who continue to use the drug
regularly do so because they identify with the
Ecstasy scene.
Many people who use Ecstasy, have no idea of the
price they could pay for the extra energy boosts
that e seems to provide. The body of a repeat
Ecstasy user is slowly worn out with each
sleepless night, and the way that Ecstasy
suppresses the appetite harms its system. As a
result, frequent Ecstasy users often feel
listless and frazzled during the day.
Raving All Night
In the early evening, the rivers assemble. The
nights rave might have been planned much earlier
in the week, although some still occur at a
moment’s notice, with carloads of teenagers
descending on a deserted barn or warehouse. Just
before arriving at the rave, the group takes
their e tablets. Within an hour, the effects
have taken hold and the Ravers begin to respond
to the music’s rhythm. The effects of the drug
wear off after about 4 hours, but by that point
the rave has a momentum of its own, carrying the
dancers on to daybreak.
Who Sells Ecstasy?
In many ways, the distribution network for
Ecstasy is different from those for other
illegal drugs. Obtaining supplies of drugs that
produce a strong physical
dependence often means
approaching unknown dealers. Many dealers fit
the image of the shady character offering
something from the inside of a pocket of a
raincoat. One must remember that there is no
quality control with drugs of this type!
That is why many people O-D on drugs that are
manufactured in someone's kitchen!
Casual Exchanges
Getting a hold of Ecstasy is a more informal
affair. People often buy Ecstasy from close
friends or people they have seen repeatedly at
raves. The nearest comparison is with marijuana,
which people often obtain from friends whom they
trust. Typically, a friend or fellow Raver will
ask if someone is carrying, or has the pill they
want. Very few people, however, actually make
the Ecstasy themselves. Therein lies the danger.
Inexperienced makers don’t adhere to any tight
degree of formula!
A Leap of Faith
Because the production and sale of Ecstasy is
illegal, its distribution operates outside any
type of legal guidelines or regulations. In any
e transaction, the buyer is never sure of what
he or she is actually buying. Some Ecstasy
tablets have no trace of the drug in them at
all, although most samples contain varying
amounts of MDMA or related drugs. There is also
a risk that an e tablet contains animal
tranquilizers, amphetamines, caffeine, or LSD.
Drugs experts warn that Ecstasy capsules are
particularly risky since they can easily be
opened and altered.
“The Majority of people who end up in the ER
after taking Ecstasy are almost certainly not
taking MDMA but something masquerading under its
name.” – From “Happiness is a…. Pill?” Time
Magazine, June 5, 2000
Wider Effects
Any widespread use of an illegal drug among
young people is bound to cause confusion and
conflict within the family, and with non-using
friends. Although some estimates suggest that
more than a million young people are using
Ecstasy regularly, often every weekend, there
are still many more that do not. Many of these
people are friends of Ecstasy users, and the
relationship between the two groups often
becomes strained. The same is true among
families.
Parental Dilemma
Most parents of people who take Ecstasy were in
their late thirties or forties! The late 1960s
was a time of intense drug use, coupled with
parental conflict and a general sense of
rebellion against traditional values. It is
somewhat ironic for many parents, some of whom
have their own histories of drug use, to face
the same behavior in their own children. Apart
from the issue of staying out late, the dance
scene itself does not prove to be a terrible
threat to family life. Parents know that they
must separate their disapproval of drug use from
other feelings about raves themselves. In fact,
a large number of Ravers don’t participate in
the drug scene. Ben Wilke, a Houston Raver,
says, “Real party kids don’t do drugs. We go to
dance and have a good time.”
“After talking to [Sara’s friends], I know if
they have concerns about a friend, they don’t
know whom to talk to… if only they had some
sort of third party, a minister, a school
councilor, a place where they can go to tell
someone. I think things would have been
different if I had been told.”
Janice Aeschilimann if Naperville, Illinois,
whose 18 year old daughter, Sara, died in May of
2000 after overdosing on Ecstasy.
A Test of Relationships
Until the drug-use question becomes highly
charged, or deadly, most Ecstasy users do not
think that their drug use threatens their family
relationships. For their part, they do not
expect their parents to know about, or condone,
the use of Ecstasy. Tragically, as in the case
of Sara Aeschlimann or Naperville, Illinois, her
parents didn’t know about their children’s
Ecstasy use until it was too late.
Sara died of an Ecstasy overdose during her
senior year of high school.
Friendships, however, are a different matter. A
drug user’s regular habit puts a strain on
friendships with non-users. Non-users worry
about their friend's drug habit and wonder
whether the friend’s quest to be “cool”
overshadows common sense. Second, a change of
attitude can take place in the Ecstasy user.
Ecstasy makes it hard to take many things
seriously, and such activities as studying or
playing sports might lose their appeal.
Supply and Demand
Supply of Ecstasy has managed to keep up with
the growing demand for the drug. Because each
pill costs only pennies to make but sells for
$20 to $40 per tablet on the street, dealers
have an incentive to keep pushing it. This
product is highly
profitable for the pusher and they don’t care
who buys it as long as they buy it!
Life with Ecstasy
Using Ecstasy involves running risks that many
Ravers choose to ignore or to play down. These
risks are not just confined to regular users;
even a single Ecstasy tablet can lead to death!
While it is very uncertain whether anyone has
died directly from the toxic effects of the
drug, fatalities have occurred from other
complications.
Heatstroke / Convulsions/ Suffocation
Dozens of Ecstasy deaths have resulted from
overheating. Ecstasy raises the body's temperature
and encourages repeated behavior like frantic
dancing, which also raises temperature. Added to
this is the hot environment of most dance
floors. Body temperature can exceed the dangerous
limit of 111 degrees Fahrenheit. Symptoms then
include convulsions, very low blood pressure,
and highly increased heart rate. MDMA seems to
interfere with the way blood coagulates in the
body. If it coagulates in the lungs, the person
dies of suffocation.
Too Much Fluid
Most Ravers realize that they need to replace
the fluids they lose through sweating and
increased body temperature. Drinking too much,
however, can lead to trouble. Again, the problem
seems to relate to signals that MDMA sends
within the body. It prevents the kidneys from
expelling excess fluids from the body. Water is
retained in the body,
especially in brain cells
that regulate bodily functions such as breathing
and heart rate. Symptoms include dizziness and
confusion. In serious cases, the person lapses
into a coma.
Heart Failure
The third major cause of Ecstasy-related death
comes from the rise in heart rate and blood
pressure during an Ecstasy high. Although many
young people are fit enough to cope with this
increased pressure on the circulatory system,
others might have even minor heart conditions
that had previously been unnoticed. Faced with
such a sudden rise in blood pressure,
a faulty
coronary system might fail, causing death.
Rave Risks
Repeated use of Ecstasy can lead to a range of
problems, some minor and others more serious.
People do build up a
tolerance, and the higher the
dose that they end up taking can open them up to
some
toxic side effects.
Among these are nausea,
dizziness, jaw tension, and heatstroke.
The Heat Is On
Although Ecstasy is nearly a century old, it has
only made headlines for about a decade. It may
be too soon to tell how many medical
complications might arise from repeated use of
the drug, although researchers are beginning to
gather evidence that it might cause long-term
liver damage in some people.
The issue that has caught the public imagination
is the problem of overheating and heatstroke.
Both of these problems can arise in a first-time
experience, but they are more likely to occur
when someone has been taking relatively high
doses over a long time. Basically, Ecstasy is a
stimulant; it makes users able to dance longer,
which in turn makes them very hot.
The drug also raises the body temperature, which
makes the user hotter still. These two factors,
coupled with the hot and crowded conditions on
most dance floors, means that quarts of water
are sweated out. The result can lead to
dehydration and heatstroke.
Other Concerns
This principle of tolerance to the drug
increases the problem of overheating and is also
linked to other negative side effects. Research
into this matter is sometimes
contradictory, but
serious concerns have been raised. For example,
four Scottish Ravers died in 1992 of
brain
hemorrhages, although three of them had also
been using amphetamines.
Equally troubling is
the suggestion that Ecstasy might damage brain
cells. Ecstasy is believed to damage the cells
that produce and transmit a chemical known as
serotonin. Serotonin is said to control sleep,
appetite, and mood; however, knowledge about the
chemical is limited. It is difficult to prove
with certainty what harm Ecstasy might do.
The Ecstasy Industry
Ecstasy has evolved from being a drug used in
the preparation of other drugs to become a
popular drug in its own right. Despite its
illegal status in nearly every country, it
continues to be produced in vast quantities.
Some production is due to the
many chemical
formulae that Alexander Shulgin and other
chemists have put in the public domain over the
years. These formulae offer virtual step-by-step
instructions on how to produce Ecstasy and other
derivatives of its parent drug, MDA.
Return to Research
Even if Ecstasy is nowhere near as powerful as
LSD, their histories and the industry
surrounding them have run parallel. Many of the
same people who, during the time when Ecstasy
was still legal in the United States, argued for
a pause before letting it go public and are now
pressing for further research.
Ecstasy was banned in 1985 in the United States
specifically because of the fears that it would
damage brain cells. At the time, the evidence
leading to this conclusion was based on animal
experiments that used much higher doses of MDMA
than those taken by humans. The drug was
injected into rats and monkeys, rather than
being taken orally, which is the way most
Ecstasy users take it. For these reasons, the
evidence was discounted; however studies show
that the doses ingested by e users today
parallel those in the experiments.
“I think it is important to recognize that,
particularly in the rave situation, there are
individuals taking six, eight, even ten tablets
over a twenty-four to forty-eight hour period,
so some of the more recent patterns of human
MDMA use in the rave settings are beginning to
mimic the regimen of drug administration that we
employed in our monkeys.” – Doctor George
Ricaurte, defending his 1980s animal research on
MDMA
The unknown purpose of serotonin has meant that
claims that Ecstasy can cause brain damage are
not the last word. One important question has
remained unanswered: just how does Ecstasy
affect people? The beginnings of an answer
emerged in California in May 1994, when Doctor
Charles Grobb became the first doctor to legally
give Ecstasy to a human being since its
criminalization. Grobb’s findings confirmed
several points that had been observed on dance
floors. First, Ecstasy does cause an increase in
core body temperature, even in the people who
had remained in bed throughout the testing
period. Second, there is a persistent rising of
blood pressure.
Both of these findings fit in with what is
described as
anecdotal research; the first-hand
accounts of Ecstasy users. They also highlight
the dangers of overheating and heart-related
problems. What none of the research has
discovered, however, is just how Ecstasy
produces its unique sense of
empathy among those
who take it.
Altered Ecstasy
These American researchers and others studying
Ecstasy, stress that their work is done with
pure MDMA. What people actually buy on the
street or in clubs is a different matter, since
it can easily be fake or mixed with other drugs.
Drug agencies have become particularly concerned
by the risk associated with this type of Ecstasy. They note that there are two types of
Ecstasy being sold on the street. The first is
actually MDMA, but is very closely linked to the
powerful MDA. The second is entirely fake,
comprising of aspirin, amphetamines, LSD, or other
drugs.
A California organization called Dance Safe sets
up tables at Raves, where users can get
information and have e pills tested. The group
has found that as much as 20 percent of the
so-called Ecstasy sold at Raves contains
something other than MDMA, and that 40 percents
of the pills are fake.
Cashing In
While researchers have been occupied by trying
to get to the truth about Ecstasy and its
effects, the drug itself has continued to enjoy
widespread popularity. As a result, the Ecstasy
scene, sometimes described as e culture,
generates huge amounts of money. Some of this
money finds its way into the hands of drug
dealers and
traffickers, but Ecstasy trafficking
does not have the same sense of international
intrigue, profits, and violence that accompanies
the trade in heroin or cocaine.
The Rave Economy
There is, however, a vast area of economic
activity that has benefited directly from the
whole club culture. The late 1990s saw a move
away from the massive, unplanned Raves in
abandoned warehouses and toward more commercial
clubs. Entrance fees of $10 a head can still
generate a good profit for a night club.
The whole culture surrounding the dance scene,
with which Ecstasy is so closely linked, has led
to many developments in the wider world of
business.
While Raves have existed for a decade, the
rituals, visuals, fashion, and sounds associated
with Raves have recently started influencing pop
music, advertising, and computer games. The
electronic art inspired by the rave scene has
influenced a new graphic sensibility, with vivid
typography and science-fiction inspired imagery
popping up in advertisements for products
ranging from cologne to automobiles. Companies
with no obvious link to drugs or Ecstasy
generally have seen the potential for generating
more sales among young people. Products such as
soft drinks, convenience foods, and even banking
services are advertised in a way that reminds
Ecstasy users of the wacky point of view that
the drug produces. In some cases, the packaging
of familiar products has been redesigned to be
brighter and more carefree in their design.
Growing Concern among Law-Enforcement Officials
Because Ecstasy users tend to keep to themselves
at dance parties, there was no violence or theft
tied to the drugs, as there is with much more
widely known drugs such as Cocaine or Heroin.
Therefore, many drug agencies focused their
efforts on the more “dangerous” drugs. The
Ecstasy scene is becoming more dangerous,
however, as the lure of outrageous profits
attracts organized crime. In 1999, US
authorities arrested Sammy Gravano, a former
mafia member, for allegedly running an Ecstasy
ring in Arizona. According to authorities,
Gravano’s ring distributed 25,000 pills each
week, worth $500,000 on the street!
Parents Action Plan
This drug is used by older teens and adults
especially around the Dance and Rave Party
scene! You should still hold school and birthday
parties in your home to track your children's'
friends and school mates and any of their
friends who have an influence over them! Make
sure that you get every Mother’s Phone
Number and
E-Mail address so that you can be in contact
with them!
Special Note to Parents!
Make sure that your use of your computer shows
no signs of our websites and any
downloading of this information that they can
detect! This is so important!
It may even be worth you purchasing your own
computer for your kitchen with a special
password that only you and your spouse know!